WHO AM I SEARCHIN’ FOR?
I used to be very particular with the physical features I’m looking for a partner and set very high standards as if I’m screening a fashion model for a photo shoot. Of course, everyone is dreaming to be with a physically attractive partner as in every feature from head to foot should be beautiful and well-proportioned. But due to a change of view, I decided to lower my criteria in physical aspects and set a higher consideration in prioritizing emotional and mental capabilities instead.
Sometimes, we look for what we actually don’t have in other people that’s why we are easily attracted to them. The advantage here is if a couple has different personalities, they could have an equilibrium in their relationship, a balancing act in a sense that both of them will both correct each others mistakes and will help nurturing one another. As long as I feel the sincerity and the charisma, even if he’s just average looking and even if we are not alike that much yet has a blending/complementing/harmonizing personality with me somehow, then I think that we
will click!
What I find sexy, outstanding and flattering in a man are the ff:
( It doesn’t mean that you necessarily possess all characteristics for me to like you except the
ones with the phrase “a must” )
PHYSICAL
- wiry (slender yet strong)
- taller and older (or at least has matured thinking if younger – a must) than me
- has a long (either straight or wavy) hair and long neck
- has supple lips with an attractive pout same as a model’s
- has a nice set of teeth and a great smile (a must!)
- has broad shoulders
- of Asian descent
- has androgynous/girlish looks YET, there’s still the astigin / tigasin (tough) factor
- has a metrosexual, urbane flair oozing with sex appeal!
EMOTIONAL/MENTAL
- has a good sense of humor and who can make me laugh in the middle of a bad temper
- there’s a combination of serious and gentle side in him
- having high emotional quotient (EQ) is also a must even though his IQ is average
- knows the magic of a tender caress.
- open-minded & altruistic
A PLUS
- a good singer and DANCER!
- has interest in the broad field of Arts & the fashion/modeling industry
- has no any kind of STDs esp. AIDS & not promiscuous! ( a must )
CELEBRITY CRUSHES (LOCAL)
- Borgy Manotoc (Model)
- Brad Murdoch (the Kenny G.-haired model of Camay and Coffeemate.
- Kwon Sang Woo (Stairway to Heaven)
- Jake Cuenca (Actor)
- male model in the TV commercial of Carefree Feminine Wash (the yoga guru)